Real Joy as a Parent and a Request for Your Help and Prayers

On April 27, 2011, in Family Circus, Matters that Matter, by Glenda Embree

Throughout every stage, and for each individual child, there are those moments and memories that we will remember with happiness.  There are so many special times, when we know that God has blessed, led and grown our children, in spite of our shortcomings and mistakes.  3 John 1:4 says, “I have no greater joy than [...]

Me and my Jenna.

Throughout every stage, and for each individual child, there are those moments and memories that we will remember with happiness.  There are so many special times, when we know that God has blessed, led and grown our children, in spite of our shortcomings and mistakes.  3 John 1:4 says, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.”  What a blessing and unmatched joy that truly is.  I can claim that same joy, with all of my children and it is by no credit to me or my husband, but by God’s overwhelming grace.  It is with great delight, then, that I share the following letter with you.  It is from our third daughter, Jenna.  I ask that you would prayerfully consider her words and join me in praying for and supporting her in this adventure that God is sending her on.

With love and great appreciation,

Glenda

Hello. :)

I’m Jenna Embree, and I want to share a bit with you about what God is doing in my life.

For a year-and-a-half, now, I’ve been staying busy, working at a chiropractic office in good old Seward, NE. It’s been such a blessing to work there. But for the last several years, I’ve felt the strong desire to work in youth ministry. So when I’m not busy at work, I’ve been trying to get involved with youth ministry, wherever I can. I was able to help out with VBS – as well as help a friend teach 1st grade Sunday school,  last summer and both were an adventure.  :)   Through most of high school, I helped out with the AWANA program at our church – but this past year, after a lot of prayer and consideration, I decided to take a break from that, and I’ve been helping with the Jr. High ministry, working as a youth leader. It’s been awesome to work with the Jr. High students and see God working in and through them. I’ve learned so much about working with youth, and now, an exciting mission’s opportunity has come up working with youth in New Orleans alongside Urban Impact Ministries!

Urban Impact Ministries was founded in 1989 by Glen Schrieber, who followed God to minister to the youth and families of Central City New Orleans. The initial recreation outreach to kids in the housing projects quickly sparked a Bible study for junior high students and then high school students. Pastor John Gerhardt and his wife, Wendy, joined the ministry in 1991, and in 1998 ministry to whole families became more prevalent when Castle Rock Community Church was founded.

Pre-Katrina, a few of the things the ministry offered were an after school reading program, growing youth nights for junior high and high school students, youth drumline and Wednesday night Bible study for adults. Following the storm UIM partnered with EFCA Touch Global to work to rebuild the city. Now the ministry offers Tuesday night homework help, youth nights and open court every Friday and Saturday night.

The house where interns and volunteers stayed the summer I was in New Orleans.

I had heard a little bit about Urban Impact through people in our Church who had personally been involved with the ministry, but I didn’t really know what it was, until the summer of my junior year when my youth group was able to go to New Orleans for a week.  I fell in love with the ministry and people right away.  It was an awesome learning experience.  We were able to serve in a lot of ways, but the main ones, were helping with VBS and Challenge Circle. For Challenge Circle we’d go out to the projects, and kids from the neighborhood would come out and we’d play games, much like AWANA games.  It’s an awesome outreach tool and each game has cheers to go along with it, which teach the kids about Jesus, without them even realizing it. If you aren’t familiar with AWANA, it’s a fun club for the kids to come memorize Bible verses, play games and learn about Jesus.

We went into the projects to do Challenge Circle with the kids.

Becoming an intern was on my mind as soon as we left New Orleans, that summer.  My friends and I were all pretty pumped from the trip and talked about a lot of us going back, as though it were a sure thing. But I wasn’t quite old enough yet, and by the time I was, the part of me I like to call the “realist” had kicked in. Now that the hype was over, I spent a lot of time making excuses as to why I shouldn’t go back to intern — the time – the money – I wasn’t really sure how excited my parents would be about the idea -  I wasn’t sure what that would mean for my job – I was worried I wouldn’t do well in a leadership position… etc.  I spent a lot time praying my senior year, that God would take my will and make it match His, and that I would desire the things He desires for me.

We are blessed on a daily basis to work with, love on and share Jesus with neighborhood children who take part in Urban Impact programs.

After that, New Orleans started popping up everywhere in my life. People would randomly ask me if I was interning or tell me that I should, for no apparent reason. I followed the blogs of a couple guys from our church, who had gone down to intern that summer and kept up to date on what was going on with the ministry all summer long.  I remember seeing the pictures that the intern’s would post of the kids and being so excited to see that some of them who had maybe thought they were too cool for it the year before, had actually decided to continue. To see the kids in their videos singing and saying cheers and learning about God, really touched my heart. And with a lot of prayer and wise counsel, I decided that this might be something that was on my heart for a reason.  And that if this whole time I’ve praying that God would make my desires match His, that maybe, if I desire to do something to honor and serve Him, I should probably jump on that.  I needed to learn to have more faith, risk things for God, and be willing to be stretched out of my comfort zone. God has really blessed me a great deal since coming to that realization.  For instance – my parents ended up being very supportive, my boss also ended being very supportive and I’m actually going to have a job when I come home, (which is awesome, and something I wasn’t really counting on.)  Plus, I’ve had numerous opportunities to work in ministry this year – like getting to work as a leader for the Jr. High kids in our church.  It’s given me some of the experience and confidence I need to go serve in New Orleans.

Interns organize and lead high school volunteers who spend one week out of their summer helping at Urban Impact. A different set of students arrives each week throughout the summer.

I hope to not only share the gospel with the kids from New Orleans, but also with the high school groups that will come down to help us out. Having been part of one of those groups, myself, I understand how much they’re going to learn and how life changing it might end up being for some of them. I’m excited to learn more about working in a leadership position and hope to bring a lot of what I learn back, to use within my own Church. I know that many of these kids just need to be shown the unconditional love of Christ and I’m hoping that God will use all of us working down there this summer to show them just that. I remember going to the park for challenge circle and watching a 6 year old take care of a 2 year old. I just couldn’t believe anyone would send a 6 year old out on their own to go play with a bunch of strangers, much less put them in charge of an even younger child. There were so many little people who were just too mature for their own good, so many different kids from different backgrounds — some backgrounds worse than others, but they all just really need someone to let them be a kid and love them. It’s amazing how much you can light up their life by just giving them the time of day. They all love anyone and everyone. No questions asked. And the relationships you develop with the kids are just another way God uses those working down there to share his love and the gospel with them.

I’m not certain what all God has planned for me this summer.  I know there are a lot of things that will take me pretty far outside of my comfort zone and that the work won’t be easy, but I’m excited to see the ways He plans to use them to help develop me as a teacher and a leader. I want to be stretched in my faith and grow in my relationship with God.

Now on to the point – Why am I telling you all this?  I’ve been asked to raise $5,000 to cover my expenses, as well as my salary, during this summer internship.  If you are interested in supporting me financially and/or prayerfully – I would greatly appreciate it!  I’ve already been so wonderfully blessed and have been able to raise $2,168.33 of the $5,000 of my support money, and I’m SO very thankful.  But, I still need $2831.67 to be able to reach my goal.  Please don’t feel any obligation to give.  I definitely don’t want to guilt anyone.  But I do ask that you’d pray about what the Lord might have you give or not give. It says in 2 Corinthians 9:7 “Each man should give what he has decided in his heart to give. Not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.”

But more than anything – I ask for your prayer support. I know I’m going to need it. : D

In order to be able to accomplish my goals for the summer, would you prayerfully consider two things?

  1. Becoming a faithful prayer supporter.
  2. Becoming a financial partner.

I have attached a link to the response card, pictured below, which you can use to partner with me. Clicking the picture will open a printable pdf file. All financial gifts are tax-deductible, checks should be made payable to Urban Impact Ministries and please write Jenna Embree on the memo line of your check. You can click the picture, print it out and send it along with your check to…

Urban Impact Ministries – P.O. Box 50223 – New Orleans, LA 70150 – 504-523-5556

Please click this picture to open a printable version of the card that you can send with your support. Thanks!

If you have any questions, or would like to know more about what I’m going to be doing this summer, please don’t hesitate to contact me at 402-641-8457 or e-mail me at jenevieve92@gmail.com. Or if you’d just like update on what’s going on this summer, send me your email and I will try and a get a newsletter sent out a couple times during my stay. :)

Thanks so much for your time, love, and support!
In Christ,
Jenna Embree :)

Wordless Wednesday: How it Looks to be Blessed – Our Easter Sunday

On April 27, 2011, in Family Circus, Matters that Matter, Parenting and Grandparenting, Reflections, by Glenda Embree

This is my first Wordless Wednesday post.   I get the concept, but seriously; did you really think I would be totally wordless? -  lol-   Maybe I’ll start calling it Mostly Wordless Wedneday. I love these people and the only ones missing from this day were our daughter and son-in-law, who were just married [...]

This is my first Wordless Wednesday post.   I get the concept, but seriously; did you really think I would be totally wordless? -  lol-   Maybe I’ll start calling it Mostly Wordless Wedneday.

I love these people and the only ones missing from this day were our daughter and son-in-law, who were just married and now live in a distant land called California.  :)   I’m putting in a picture of them, anyway.  I also realized that our son-in-law, Jason, cleverly maneuvered himself to not be included in any pictures on Sunday.  He’s sly like that.  :)   So, I am also including a snapshot of the portrait the kids gave me for my birthday, last August.  Jason is in it.

Lacy and Eric, our distant kinfolk!

Our oldest daughter, Tia and our son, Michael. We celebrated his birthday, too. Note that height has nothing to do with age, as he towers over nearly all of us. :)

Our two granddaughters with their new Barbies!

David and our youngest daughter. She'll always pose for a picture, he just wants some lunch! :)

Our grandson. Is it dinner, yet?

There was one moment of dissension about the appropriate sprinkling process for paprika on the deviled eggs. It all worked out. :)

...and I want a "doubled egg", please. :)

Enjoying her "doubled egg".

Posing with Aunt Jenna after enjoying her "doubled egg".

Posing with Aunt Jenna.

More posing with Aunt Jenna. Can you guess who managed my camera all day? :)

Michael and Jenna.

Michael making his baby sister look very short. :)

Me and our resident photographer. :)

Last August, the kids had this portrait done for my birthday. Jason is in this one! :)

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Dora’s Garden Gazebo by Mega Bloks: A Review & Giveaway

Mega Bloks are a family favorite, in our household; and their new Dora’s Garden Gazebo set has only reinforced that!  I had the chance to review this fun toy with our 3- and 4-year-old granddaughters, over the weekend, and was so tickled to see the fun they had.  The toy is designed for ages 3 [...]

Mega Bloks are a family favorite, in our household; and their new Dora’s Garden Gazebo set has only reinforced that!  I had the chance to review this fun toy with our 3- and 4-year-old granddaughters, over the weekend, and was so tickled to see the fun they had.  The toy is designed for ages 3 and up and has the same “chunky” pieces we are used to with Mega Bloks, but it includes more than just blocks.  The pieces can be used to build a “gazebo” and also includes a Dora the Explorer figure,  a second skirt (yup!  Dora can change clothes.), bluebird, fence, watering can, flower pot, flower, evergreen tree, umbrella, and picnic table.  AND, with only 19 pieces, it is easy to gather them back into the box when play is finished.

 

Two happy Dora fans!

The one possible drawback, if you can call it that, is that some of the pieces are small.  If you have a toddler who enjoys putting things in their mouth, this could obviously pose a choking hazard, which is clearly stated on the packaging.  I know most of you, like me, understand what “ages 3 and up” means, and exercise common sense and good judgment in your own personal circumstances.  My not-quite-two grandson (He’s not really a “taste everything” sort of toddler), engaged in play with this toy several times over the weekend, with my close supervision, and had an absolute blast.  Would I leave him alone with it?  No!  Did he benefit from playing with it while I kept a close watch?  Absolutely!  Now on to the good stuff!  What did I love about it?

  1. The opportunities for creativity and imagination are endless.  Each of the girls were rapt in their own imaginary scenarios as they played with the set.  Dora had all sorts of adventures, I would never have dreamed of and literally provided an entire day of off-and-on fun and play for both our granddaughters.  The “pillars” for the gazebo became walls or doors or gates.  Dora took a trip with the bluebird and was also introduced to Barbie.  The tree grew in the flower pot and then the flower grew in the flowerpot.  The fence was most often used as a swinging gate, attached to only one block post so it was left free to swing on one end.

    A closeup of one setup. They were playing at the kitchen counter while I cooked.

  2. Eye-hand coordination practice and refining of small motor skills as the individual pieces were fit together.  These tasks are going to help train those little fingers and minds for bigger tasks in the future and help prepare them for other small motor tasks like handwriting.
  3. The colors!  What child isn’t immediately drawn into  a toy that is bursting with bright, inviting color?  I even wanted to play with it!
  4. There is no right or wrong way to assemble it, so children are encouraged to come up with their own ideas and designs.  Multiple design ideas are shown on the package, as well, to help inspire them.

    Mega Bloks

    A change of location and a whole new adventure.

Mega Bloks never disappoints our family, when it comes to creative learning toys that even younger children can enjoy and learn from!  Really, their toys are good for such a wide age-range, depending on which toys you select.  If you haven’t experienced their fine products, I hope you’ll visit their website and learn more about them.  A new feature of that website is their Mega Bloks Family Club, where you will find special offers, contests, sweepstakes and promotions on lots of Mega Bloks toys; as well as an educational and informative blog, the opportunity to receive a free email newsletter AND a COUPON for $5 off $30 in Mega Bloks toys, just for signing up!  It’s definitely worth your time to check it out!

One of you will be able to win a Dora’s Garden Gazebo for your own family in the giveaway made possible here at Busy-at-Home, by Mega Blocks and Child’s Play Communications.

Giveaway Rules:

Entrants must be 18 or older and a resident of the U.S.  Mandatory entry must be completed before optional entries will be counted.  Deadline to enter is midnight (CST) Sunday, May 15, 2011.  Winner will be selected in a random drawing, using random.org.  Several bloggers are working with MegaBloks and Child’s Play PR on this campaign.  Only one prize per winner.  If you win on multiple blogs,  you will receive one prize and new winners will be selected, for the others.

Mandatory Entry:

In a comment below, share what is your family’s favorite Mega Bloks toy or set OR which one you would love to have.  If you need ideas, you can visit the Mega Bloks website.

Optional Additional Entries:

  1. Follow Mega Bloks on Twitter and leave a comment, below, letting me know you did, as well as your Twitter handle.
  2. Follow Busy-at-Home on Twitter.  Leave a comment letting me know you’ve done it.
  3. Like Busy-at-Home on Facebook. Leave a comment letting me know you’ve done it.
  4. Follow Busy-at-Home on Google Friends Connect.  Use the “Join” button in the right-hand sidebar.  Leave a comment letting me know you’ve done it.
  5. Subscribe to the Busy-at-Home Newsletter with this link (or in the right-hand sidebar).  You will receive an email confirmation with a link that must be clicked to confirm your subscription.  Once you click the email link to confirm your subscription, leave me a comment to let me know you’ve done it.
  6. Post this giveaway on your Facebook pageEnter to win a Dora’s Garden Gazebo Play Set by Mega Bloks in a Busy-at-Home giveaway. http://busy-at-home.com/blog/doras-garden-gazebo-by-mega-bloks-a-review-giveaway/ Leave a comment below with a link to your post.
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In order to conduct this review and test the product, I received a Dora’s Garden Gazebo Play Set by Mega Bloks, through Child’s Play Communications.  No monetary compensation was received and a positive review was not required.  As with all Busy-at-Home reviews, the views and opinions expressed are wholly my own.

 

Purex Complete with Zout Stain Remover: Review and Giveaway!

On April 23, 2011, in Budget-wise, Giveaways, Home and Garden, Reviews, by Glenda Embree

As a Purex Insider, I have the great good fortune to let you know about the latest products Purex is releasing to help make your work at home easier to complete and easier on your budget.  It’s no secret that I love Purex for the money they can save in our budget over other name [...]

As a Purex Insider, I have the great good fortune to let you know about the latest products Purex is releasing to help make your work at home easier to complete and easier on your budget.  It’s no secret that I love Purex for the money they can save in our budget over other name brand laundry products.  They do a fantastic job of cleaning and caring for the clothes my family uses every day and at a fraction of the cost.

I was able to test new Purex Complete with Zout Stain Remover, over the last several weeks, doing our regular laundry and using it to pre-treat two of our family’s most stubborn previously washed and dried stains.  While this isn’t exactly a “fair” test, since these were definitely pre-set stains, I was curious how the Zout would do on them.  My husband is a machine operator for an automotive parts manufacturer.  Hands coated in machine-grease and oil are regular parts of his workday.  Then those hands reach into his pockets for a key, a part or a pair of pliers, etc.  The stains this creates around the pockets of his jeans are grimy, greasy and tough, and even using expensive detergents and pre-treaters, I have not been successful in removing it completely.  I was anxious to give the Zout a chance to tackle this problem.

Pre-treating our grimy grease stains on work jeans.

I pre-treated the stained areas, applying Purex Complete with Zout Stain Remover and then allowing it to set for one hour.  I then threw the jeans in with a regular load and found that they still had a faint gray haze of the stain.  I wasn’t really upset or surprised, as the original stain had been washed and dried many times and then re-stained at work that day.  After a second wash, the gray haze was still visible, but lighter than when I started.  My conclusion was that tough stains that have been through your washer and dryer multiple times, already, may not be able to be removed with this new product.

I only pre-treated one side of the jeans, so I would be sure to be able to see the effects, if any, that the Zout Stain remover had on our set-in stain. In keeping with my menopausal absentmindedness, I spaced taking an "after" picture of the greatly faded stain. I will definitely get one if I conduct this test, again, with my brand-spanking-new washing machine.

My second test of long-term stains was tomato sauce on a t-shirt.  Like the jeans, this shirt had been washed and dried previously.  By the time I caught it, the stains were set.  I used the Purex Complete with Zout Stain Remover to pre-treat the orangey stain and after an hour, washed it in a regular load.  The stain was not removed completely, but is much fainter, so my results were pretty much the same.

Regular laundry and stained items that had not been through my dryer, first, washed up beautifully, without even needing to be pre-treated.  I will also say that my washing machine was languishing, near death, (It exploded and created a small flood on  my laundry room floor, on Friday.  Oy!) when I conducted these tests.  David installed a new high-efficiency washing machine for me over this past weekend, so my results may very well be different with this better machine and I may try again to remove some set-in stains.  I’ll update this post if I do.

So, overall, Purex Complete with Zout Stain Remover did everything I expected it to do and almost succeeded in doing what I hoped for, but didn’t expect.  It smelled wonderful doing it ( I tested the Fresh Morning Burst scent.) and as always, it’s a budget-conscious product that can easily be found at your local Wal-Mart or Target.  For those with sensitive skin, or allergies to fragrance, this economical and effective product is also available in a Free & Clear variety.  It works in conventional OR high efficiency machines, too.  The great news is you can receive a FREE SAMPLE for yourself or win one of two full-size bottles that Purex is giving away, here at Busy-at-Home.  The winners will receive a coupon, by mail, for a full-sized bottle!

Giveaway Rules:

Entrants must be 18 or older and residents of the U.S. to participate.  Mandatory Entry must be completed for any additional entries to be counted.  Deadline to enter is midnight (CST) Sunday, May 8, 2011.  Winners will be selected at random, using random.org.

Mandatory Entry:

In a comment, below, share your most challenging stain story.

Optional Additional Entries:

  1. Follow Purex on Twitter and leave a comment, below, letting me know you did, as well as your Twitter handle.
  2. Like Purex on Facebook and leave a comment, below, letting me know you did, as well as your Facebook Name.
  3. Follow Busy-at-Home on Twitter.  Leave a comment letting me know you’ve done it.
  4. Like Busy-at-Home on Facebook. Leave a comment letting me know you’ve done it.
  5. Follow Busy-at-Home on Google Friends Connect.  Use the “Join” button in the right-hand sidebar.  Leave a comment letting me know you’ve done it.
  6. Subscribe to the Busy-at-Home Newsletter with this link (or in the right-hand sidebar).  You will receive an email confirmation with a link that must be clicked to confirm your subscription.  Once you click the email link to confirm your subscription, leave me a comment to let me know you’ve done it.
  7. Post this giveaway on your Facebook pageEnter to win a FREE full-sized bottle of new Purex Complete Laundry Detergent with Zout Stain Remover. http://busy-at-home.com/blog/purex-complete-with-zout-stain-remover-review-and-giveaway/ Leave a comment below with a link to your post.
  8. Tweet this giveaway (1x daily) : Leave a comment below with a link to your tweet.

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I received a full-sized bottle of Purex Complete with Zout Stain Remover in order to conduct this review.  No monetary compensation was received and a positive review was not required.  As with all Busy-at-Home reviews, the views and opinions expressed are wholly my own. Purex has supplied two coupons for FREE full-sized bottles of Purex Complete with Zout for the giveaway winners.

Pasta Night Extraordinaire with Bove’s Pasta Sauces!: A Review & Giveaway

On April 23, 2011, in Giveaways, In the Kitchen, Reviews, by Glenda Embree

It’s a tough job, but someone has to do it, right?  My family just had the opportunity to test four delicious pasta sauces from Bove’s.  Bove’s started three generations back in a family-run, Italian restaurant, in Vermont.  They attribute their great success to high quality, all natural ingredients, cooking only in small, quality-controlled batches and [...]

It’s a tough job, but someone has to do it, right?  My family just had the opportunity to test four delicious pasta sauces from Bove’s.  Bove’s started three generations back in a family-run, Italian restaurant, in Vermont.  They attribute their great success to high quality, all natural ingredients, cooking only in small, quality-controlled batches and staying true to their time-tested, family recipes.  Their business has grown over the years to include producing frozen lasagnas, frozen meatballs and jarred pasta sauces, while still adhering to those original principles.

The four yummy Bove's pasta sauces we were fortunate enough to review.

You may not realize that April is National Garlic month, but in honor of this great celebration, we were offered the chance to review Bove’s Roasted Garlic Pasta Sauce; (which, incidently, is going to be featured on The Food Network’s “The Best Thing I Ever Ate”) .  Never one to miss the chance for a celebration OR spaghetti, I happily accepted, and what a great surprise when the box arrived, to find four different flavors to test!  Not only did we have Roasted Garlic Pasta Sauce, but we also received Basil Pasta Sauce, Vodka Pasta Sauce and Marinara Sauce.  As it turns out, the Roasted Garlic and Basil Pasta Sauces ended up in a dead-heat tie for first place in our testing, with Vodka Pasta Sauce coming in second and the Marinara, third.

Our own personal pasta bar and happy faces of anticipation!

Instead of adding ground beef directly to the sauce, I just browned it up and left it to each person to add what they liked.  We made a lovely salad, some garlic bread, served tons of freshly grated Parmesan to top the pasta and made lots and lots of noodles, then left everyone to taste and try the sauces, as they wished.  Our grandbabies even got in on the act!  They are spaghetti experts extraordinaire!  Truly!  They’re so serious about their pasta sauce, they’ve even been known to WEAR it.  :)


Our grandson, happily displaying the remnants of his spaghetti dinner!


Our second granddaughter, not to be outdone, happily showing HER spaghetti face!

Each sauce had rich tomatoey flavor and they were THICK, the way we like our sauce — clinging to every noodle.  All are sugar-free, and I must confess that I added 2 Tablespoons of sugar to each jar, to cut the acid of the tomatoes a bit and appease my husband, who must always have a little sweet in his pasta sauce.  Those of you on sugar restricted diets will love the all-natural approach to these sauces, though.  I loved looking at the labels and finding an ingredient list of very familiar food products with names I could pronounce.  Every ingredient on the jar was something I could pull from my own pantry or refrigerator!  Without a doubt, we loved Bove’s pasta sauces, as was evidenced by the cleaned plates and happy smiles.  What a yummy dinner!

Note that the only thing left on these plates is the salad. Those tummy's are full of spaghetti and Bove's pasta sauces! :)

If you would love to serve Bove’s for your own National Garlic month celebration, or just for a fabulous fun spaghetti dinner, stop by their online store and order your favorite varieties!  Bove’s also has their own blog with tons of news and yummy meal ideas.  They even have a recipe section with 10 delicious dishes for you to try.

Our family will be enjoying Bove’s pasta sauces, again!  I’m sure that the Roasted Garlic and the Basil are in our immediate future.  One lucky Busy-at-Home reader will have the same opportunity!  Boves is generously sponsoring a giveaway of one jar of their delicious sauce for a Busy-at-Home reader.

Giveaway Rules:

Entrants must be 18 or older and a resident of the U.S. Mandatory entry must be completed for any additional entries to be counted.  Deadline to enter is midnight (CST), Sunday, May 8, 2011. Winner will be selected in a random drawing using random.org.

Mandatory Entry:

Leave a comment below, telling me which of the six flavors of Bove’s pasta sauce you would most like to try, if you’re the winner.  If you don’t remember all the varieties, you can find them listed in the Bove’s store.

Additional Optional Entries:

  1. Like Bove’s on Facebook and leave a comment below with your Facebook name, letting me know you did.
  2. Like Bove’s on Twitter and leave a comment below with your Twitter handle, letting me know you did.
  3. Follow Busy-at-Home on Twitter.  Leave a comment letting me know you’ve done it.
  4. Like Busy-at-Home on Facebook. Leave a comment letting me know you’ve done it.
  5. Follow Busy-at-Home on Google Friends Connect.  Use the “Join” button in the right-hand sidebar.  Leave a comment letting me know you’ve done it.
  6. Subscribe to the Busy-at-Home Newsletter with this link (or in the right-hand sidebar).  You will receive an email confirmation with a link that must be clicked to confirm your subscription.  Once you click the email link to confirm your subscription, leave me a comment to let me know you’ve done it.
  7. Post this giveaway on your Facebook pageEnter to win a jar of Bove’s pasta sauce at Busy-at-Home.  Bove’s sauces have been featured on The Food Network and their sugar-free, all-natural sauce is delicious! http://bit.ly/eWKOnO Leave a comment below with a link to your post.
  8. Tweet this giveaway (1x daily) : http://bit.ly/eWKOnO Leave a comment below with a link to your tweet.

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I received four jars of Bove’s pasta sauce, in different varieties, in order to conduct this review.  No monetary compensation was received and a positive review was not required.  As with all Busy-at-Home reviews, the views and opinions expressed are wholly my own. Boves will ship a FREE jar directly to the giveaway winner.

Fabulous Reviews and Giveaways Coming Up in April

On April 13, 2011, in Giveaways, In the Kitchen, by Glenda Embree

We have an exciting list of reviews and giveaways in the works as we approach Mother’s Day!  We’re going to test some products from some of our favorite sponsors and add some new sponsors to our “family”.  Be watching for our posts about testing: Boves Garlic Pasta Sauce (Did you know April is National Garlic [...]

We have an exciting list of reviews and giveaways in the works as we approach Mother’s Day!  We’re going to test some products from some of our favorite sponsors and add some new sponsors to our “family”.  Be watching for our posts about testing:

  1. Boves Garlic Pasta Sauce (Did you know April is National Garlic month?)
  2. Bodycology Pampering Spa Basket of Sweet Petals fragranced products
  3. King Arthur Flour Pizza Party package that includes a baking stone! 
  4. Mastermind Board Game from Pressman Toys 
  5. Mastermind Towers from Pressman Toys (so your younger kids can get in on the fun.)

    Mastermind Animal Towers Board Game

  6. Purex Complete with Zout Stain Remover (2 winners will receive a coupon for a full-sized bottle.) 

The great news?  Each of these companies is also sponsoring a giveaway!!!  Busy-at-Home readers will all have a chance to win these products for their own family!  Check back often or subscribe to our email updates, so you won’t miss any of these great giveaways!

My Very First Wedding Cake: Fondant Roses

I was going to try and do this cake decorating tutorial in one post, but it would be 27,000, 962 miles long    and load so slowly for you with all the pictures, that I am going to spread it over several days and do individual tutorials for each decorating step we tried, whether we [...]

roses for cakes

I was going to try and do this cake decorating tutorial in one post, but it would be 27,000, 962 miles long  :)   and load so slowly for you with all the pictures, that I am going to spread it over several days and do individual tutorials for each decorating step we tried, whether we used it in the final product or not.  I made many varieties of flowers, both for practice and for the actual wedding cake, in the process of learning these techniques.  Plus, the Jr. High Youth Group, from our church, recently did a fundraiser to help defray the costs of our upcoming summer mission trip.  The fundraiser was a dessert auction (Remind me to tell you about it later.  It was an absolutely fabulous and fun way to raise money for a great cause.)  My first fondant flowers were used on a couple cakes for that auction.

chocolate cakes decorated

The two cakes I baked for the dessert auction. I did calla lilies and some little lavender spring flower on one and then did leaves and what reminded me of wild roses, on the second one.

chocolate cake with fondant flowers

Another view of the cakes for the auction. The fondant flowers on them were my very first attempts. As with each new thing I tried with fondant, I learned that rolling it thinner, produced a much more realistic product.

Let it be said, from the start, that I could never have accomplished these beautiful flowers without some great tools from Wilton.  Many were included in the Ultimate Decorating Set, I recently reviewed.  Others were part of

Wilton's Ultimate Decorating Set

My final confession, before showing you the easy steps for creating beautiful fondant roses is that I switched to a  different point and shoot camera, recently, and have had terrible problems with my photo quality, in our poorly lit (flourescent) kitchen; so I have to apologize from the outset that these photos are not as clear as I would like.  I will be switching back to my Canon Rebel for still shots I share with you AND I have decided that the only realistic way for me to do useful tutorials is to put my video camera on a tripod and have both hands free to work, instead of trying to snap one-handed photos with my left hand.  :)   So, tonight I will use the photos I have to show you some of the ways I have used fondant flowers in the past few weeks and specifically how to create a fondant rose.  Then, over this coming weekend, I hope to video the simple steps to create other flower varieties and post those for you, along with the technique for creating lace on the surface of your cakes.

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Fondant Roses Tutorial

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  • Step 1:You only need a few basic tools to make pretty roses for your cakes and desserts.  The fondant rolling pin, forming cup, angled paint brush, thin foam and modeling stick were all included in the Wilton Ultimate Decorating Set.  The small, medium and large petal cutters were from my own Wilton Floral Collection Gum Paste Flower Making Set.  And of course you will need a small amount of fondant.  I added a tiny container of clear water and that’s it!

    Tools for making fondant roses.

  • Step 2:Roll the fondant until it is thin enough that the petals will resemble real flower petals.  I found that less than 1/8 inch is best.  Take care to try and make sure the fondant is rolled to a uniform thickness, so your petals will be consistent.  For a rose you will need to cut 4 small petals, 5 medium petals and 7 large petals.

    Fondant cut for making roses.

    Fondant petals cut for making a rose.

  • Step 3: Roll a small ball of fondant and then narrow one end into a rounded point, to form a cone. Set it aside for a bit while you work on petals.

    fondant base for rose

    This cone of fondant is the base of your rose.

  • Step 4: Using the side of the modeling stick, roll one half of each petal to thin and “ruffle” that side.

    Use the edge of the modeling stick and roll down one side of each petal, being careful to keep the end of the stick along the halfway point on the petal. This will create a thin ruffly edge and the other side will still be the original thickness.

    A rose petal pressed and ruffled. (I went over the halfway point on that one. It still worked fine.)

  • Step 5:To attach the petals (start with the 4 small ones) and begin forming the flower, dip the paint brush in water.  Tap off most of the excess.  You want it damp, but not dripping.  Moisten the thick (unrolled) side of each petal.

    Attach each petal to the fondant cone. Place the first petal, point side down, against the cone (which is point side up) and gently press to seal it along the edge where you brushed the water.

  • Step 6: Repeat this process with the other three small petals, until all are attached around the circumference of the cone.

    Start the second row using the medium petals.

    Step 7: Continue working around the flower, attaching each of the 5 medium petals.  I used the pointed end of the modeling stick to gently lift petals away from the bud if the were sticking down further than I wanted them and the rounded end of the modeling stick to curl the top edges of petals back a bit.

    The center bud with all 5 medium rose petals attached.

  • Step 8: You will add the last row of petals around your flower, by attaching the 7 large petals you have prepared.  A few times, if the rose was not as full as I wanted, I added one or two extra petals.  Once all petals have been attached and you have used the modeling stick to shape them as you want them to lay, allow the rose to air dry in the forming cup.  The curved bottom and sides on the cup helps the rose to hold its shape.

    A few of my finished fondant roses. I did make one fondant rose for the final wedding cake that sat in the center of the calla lilies.

My First Wedding Cake: Part 3

On April 6, 2011, in Budget-wise, DIY Cake/ Wedding Cake Decorating, In the Kitchen, Weddings, by Glenda Embree

I won’t get to post the how-to tutorial, until Thursday or Friday, but I wanted to share pictures of the finished product with you, this afternoon.  Using some fantastic tools from Wilton, I was able to make our daughter’s wedding cake.  It was a beautiful success, fairly simple to complete and helped us keep this [...]

I won’t get to post the how-to tutorial, until Thursday or Friday, but I wanted to share pictures of the finished product with you, this afternoon.  Using some fantastic tools from Wilton, I was able to make our daughter’s wedding cake.  It was a beautiful success, fairly simple to complete and helped us keep this wedding under our $2000 budget.  Yes, we managed a frugal and yet, wonderful wedding at less than 1/10 the national average for weddings.  I’ll be sharing some of our tips in a later post.  ( If you missed my first two posts with the fantastic white cake recipe and the decorating of the sheet cakes, be sure to check those out, too. )  Be watching for those,  and in the meantime, I hope you enjoy these snapshots of the cake I baked for our daughter and son-in-law’s wedding celebration.  (Right click your mouse on either photo and select View Image to see the pictures full-size.)  We were very fortunate to have such a great photographer, Mary Hubbard, from Breaking the Surface Photography.  She creates exceptional photo memories at an affordable price.  I highly recommend her services.

lavender lace wedding cake

The wedding cake I baked and decorated for our daughter's wedding. Photo is published by permission and copyright © Mary Hubbard at Breaking the Surface Photography 2011.

top layer of wedding cake

A closeup of the top layer, fondant flowers and lace detail. Photo is used by permission and copyright © Mary Hubbard at Breaking the Surface Photography 2011.

My Very First Wedding Cake: Part Two (and Our Wilton Giveaway Winner)!

On April 5, 2011, in Budget-wise, DIY Cake/ Wedding Cake Decorating, DIY Projects/Gifts, Weddings, by Glenda Embree

First things first.  I know you have all been patiently waiting for the announcement of the winner in our Wilton Wedding Cake giveaway. Preparing for the wedding took me right through the deadline date without selecting the winner, so I don’t want to make you anticipate any longer.  The lucky reader who will be receiving: [...]

First things first.  I know you have all been patiently waiting for the announcement of the winner in our Wilton Wedding Cake giveaway. Preparing for the wedding took me right through the deadline date without selecting the winner, so I don’t want to make you anticipate any longer.  The lucky reader who will be receiving:

  1. Performance Pans™ Round Pan Set, 3 in. Deep
  2. Decorator Preferred® Bakeware Heating Core
  3. Wilton Wedding Cakes – A Romantic Portfolio

is #185, Susie Lee Weiner, who said in her comment,
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Congratulations, Susie!  You have been sent an email with instructions for receiving your prize!
Please reply within 48 hours, so Wilton can ship it right out to you!

Well, it’s done.  The months and weeks of practice, planning and preparation culminated in a beautiful wedding day, Saturday.  I spent most of Sunday and Monday just relaxing and soaking in the reality of this newest chapter in our family story.  Our daughter and son-in-law climbed into the moving truck, headed for California on Sunday morning, and I am slowly reclaiming those areas of my home that were overrun by powdered sugar, fondant, fresh flowers and myriad wedding prep necessities.  What a glorious weekend!  What a bittersweet send-off.  What an exciting new journey is just beginning for two of our most loved people.  God is truly good!

I have, as you can imagine, been occupied with all things wedding these past two weeks and most especially with my task as wedding cake baker and decorator — a responsibility that gave me both great excitement and exceptional fear.  :)   I am happy to say that bride, groom and guests were very pleased with the results and I will classify my first experience with wedding cakes a success.  I attribute that in no small part to the fabulous Wilton baking and decorating tools that I have been reviewing and the ones I already personally own.  I have been a Wilton fan for years and so my personal collection of their kitchen tools is fairly extensive.  Add to that the use of the Ultimate Decorating Kit, Wilton Preferred Round Cake Pans (3″ deep), the Wilton Heat Core and Wilton’s beautiful wedding cake book filled with decorating tips and instructions, all sent for our review here at Busy-at-Home, and my chances for a beautiful outcome were multiplied exponentially!

Wilton sheet cake pan

Wilton Decorator Preferred Sheet Pan

I baked and decorated nine, 12 x 18 sheet cakes, in addition to the wedding cake.  I baked the sheet cakes in Wilton’s  Decorator Preferred Sheet Cake Pans. I love, love, love these extra thick aluminum baking pans.  They distribute heat more evenly, meaning your finished products will bake and brown more evenly.  Beautiful!!!  The extra thick aluminum means no warping in the oven and the hand-formed edges make lifting and carrying the pans a breeze!  They are 2″ deep and are covered by a Lifetime Warranty.  I cut 24 extremely generous pieces from each pan and most people were shocked at the size of the servings, so you could easily get  28-30, if you cut them slightly smaller.  Ours was a simple cake and punch reception, so I opted for larger servings of cake.

Wilton Ready-to-Use Fondant

Wilton Ready-to-Use Rolled Fondant

To decorate the sheet cakes, I tinted Wilton Ready-to-Use Rolled Fondant, purchased at our local Wal-Mart.  Our daughter had a spring colors theme for her wedding and so we tinted some of the fondant lavender, some peach, and left some white.   I’m sure I used less than one pound in total to create the leaves and flowers for all nine sheet cakes.   It required very small amounts of Wilton Orange and Violet Icing Colors to achieve the pastel tints I wanted.  Once the fondant was colored, by kneading the color into the fondant, I sprinkled a light coating of cornstarch on the counter and rolled each color into a very thin sheet (less than 1/8 inch).  I was fortunate to have the fondant roller included in Wilton’s Ultimate Decorating Set.  It comes with bands that allow you to roll any dough or fondant to a uniform thickness.  Since I wanted the flowers to be even less than 1/8 inch I removed the bands and rolled it by “feel”.

Wilton Ultimate Decorating Set

Fabulous Wilton Ultimate Decorating Set we have been so excited to test and review.

Once the fondant was rolled, I used the smallest pink flower cutter, also included in the Ultimate Decorating Set and cut 220 of each flower color.  I did each color separately, as I didn’t want the first ones cut to dry before I had a chance to shape them.  To shape these simple posies, I used the rounded end of the thin modeling stick and the foam block, both included with the Ultimate Decorating Set.  I placed each fondant flower onto the foam and using the modeling stick, pressed an indentation into the center, which automatically turned up the petals, to give the flowers a dimensional shape.

cutting out fondant flowers

Cutting the peach fondant into tiny flowers for the sheet cakes.

shaping fondant flowers

Pressing centers and shaping fondant flowers on Wilton's Thick Foam block with their Thin Modeling Stick.

fondant posies

Freshly shaped fondant flowers.

peach fondant flowers drying

I allowed the fondant posies to dry on the two Wave Flower Formers included in the Ultimate Decorating Set. These formers were critically important when drying larger flowers for the actual wedding cake.

I simply repeated this process for both the lavender and white flowers.  The leaves were formed using a small petal cutter that I owned previously.  It’s part of Wilton’s Floral Collection Flower Making Set.  I rolled and cut the leaves in the same way as the flowers.  Then I used the “shell-shaped” end of the green ball tool to imprint “veins” into the leaves and allowed them to dry as well.

The sheet cakes were baked using the same Perfect White Wedding Cake recipe that I shared with you in the first wedding cake post.  One recipe filled one 12 x 18 pan.  When the cakes were cooled I used Wilton’s simple Butter Cream Icing recipe.  I won’t repost the recipe for you here, since you can get it easily at their site and the only variation I made was to use Bourbon Vanilla in place of the clear Vanilla.  The flavor is outrageously delicious!

After icing the sheet cakes, I lightly scored the frosting to show where I wanted the cake cuts to be made, which created the framework for laying out the flower decorations.  The cakes were moist and delicious with extreme vanilla flavor.  The icing was rich and vanilla-ey and the perfect canvas for the fondant decorations.  Guests raved about the taste and loved the decorations.  What do you think?

decorated sheet cake

One of the finished sheet cakes. Pretend you don't see that thumb-print I had to smooth back out, after moving it. :)

decorated sheetcake closeup

Closeup of finished sheet cake. I filled a decorator bag from the Ultimate Decorating Set with butter cream icing and used the second smallest round tip, tip #2, to pipe in little dot centers in each of the flowers.

A yummy slice of moist, dense, intensely vanilla sheet cake ready to be served at the wedding.

Just in case you thought I was joking about moist and dense. :) You have to try this yummy recipe!

There’s one more wedding cake post coming.  It’s going to have tons of larger, more intricate flowers, a cool “lace” decorating technique and lots of pictures.  This next picture is just a teaser and to let you have a peek at the finished product we took to the wedding reception.

cake topper

A quick "teaser" peek of the wedding cake top.